I like this song. Maybe its the instrumental that draws me in. Whatever. Listen to it ----> HERE "Secrets"- One Republic
Well, you ever wonder what kind of motions the other sex goes through in a breakup? Well, here it is. wait. Let me give you a situation we can all relate to at one point in time. Girl loves boy. Boy loves girl. They have a happy relationship. Boy starts getting scared of commitment (in some sort of way). So, boy breaks up with girl. How do each of them handle the breakup? Well here it is in 5 stages based on what ive seen:
<--- Stage 1: He's chillin. He felt like he made a sound and clear decision. He's quite satisfied. Its all about his happiness at this point.
Stage 1: She's confused, crying, and trying to figure out "Where did we go wrong?" I guaruntee this is probably her right now trying to contact him--->
<------Stage 2: He's out and about at the parties, living life. He's not focusing on the issue. Matter of fact, its not even an issue. He's channeling his energy elsewhere.Stage 2: She's still thinking about the situation. It still makes no sense. This is the "I'm slightly depressed" stage ------->
<----Stage 3: The party life is slowing down. Reality sets in. He starts thinking about his previous actions. Maybe that wasn't a good idea.
Stage 3: She's pretty much over it. By this time, she has vented to her friends and she's accepting of what happened. She's ready to move on. She's over it at this point ----->
<---Stage 4: He's thinking about the situation. Maybe I do want to be with her.Stage 4: She's moved on. Out at parties living life trying to find a replacement for you. ---->
<---Stage 5: Your calling her, texting, emailing but she's not in the least bit interested. Your decision to re-commit is too late.
Stage 5: She's not interested in you anymore. You see the new guy she's with? That's not you---->
And THAT Ladies and Gentlemen concludes this halftime show! Stay tuned for the 3rd and 4th quarter.
